Doris Patrao

Matt Miller writes:

The legendary Ms. Doris Patrao is not on Facebook but asked me to post this for her: "I had Thanksgiving dinner with George and Michael in 2005--that night, hunched over as he was and trembling from his insidious disease, he reminded me that although I am a cynic, I always wear a heart on a chain. His made his point: I am simply a fallen romantic; he said and felt what most were never able to. I kissed him on the cheek and said thank you--it takes one to know one. I will forever cherish his passion for music, for his students, for his colleagues, for his friends, for the "show"--always the "show." He heard, he saw, he yelled, he sang, he felt, he challenged, he laughed... and he believed. And we are all richer for having shared in George's dreams and inspirations."

DeMille Halliburton

DeMille Halliburton

He really cemented singing into my life. I am happy to say I am still singing in a few groups today and my wife and kids are a part of this joyful legacy. A big part of me grew from his love.


DeMille Halliburton

When I moved out to Los Angeles in 1996, I left the choral group I was singing with in NYC and for many years I did not sing in any organized group. I didn't realize how important singing was to me and how I really missed it until I found a community choir in Hollywood. I walked into the room with my wife and kids and the beautiful voices took me back to BBHS and Trautie!

Another thing that took me back to that very special time in my life.....I looked up and in the soprano section I saw Patti Stern Winkel looking at me with that, don't I know you smile!!!!

NOW, I sing every Sunday with Patti AND Stephanne Pleshette (who moved into town and I immediately knew she would LOVE it!). Another example of Mr. Trautwein living on!!!!!


DeMille Halliburton

Had a great night tonight! We had a moment of silence for Trautie @ my a capella group's rehearsal, then we broke the silence by speaking the name, one at a time, of the one music teacher that was the reason we were still singing today. Very powerful and touching moment...to hear without hesitation, everyone speak that powerful name!!

I love you George Trautwein.


DeMille Halliburton

Lyrics from a song we sing in our community choir (Native American) When you were born you cry, and the world rejoiced. Live your life so that when you die, the world cries and you rejoice. Mr. Trautwein truly lived his life this way!


DeMille Halliburton

GT always told my brother he thought he would grow up to be a preacher or a politician. Chris, its never too late!!

Del Shortliffe

Del Shortliffe

It is so hard to write about George – and to write about all the wonderful students who have paid tribute to him on this site. I loved his exhuberance, his classiness, his indivuality, and his passion for music, song, and students. But I find it hard to explain how deeply I cherish the thoughts of those early years at Blind Brook, years that he helped form and define and personify. All those of you who were students then, and who celebrate his memory now, exemplify the unique and lovely school that we all built, or at least inhabited. It was a great blessing to be a Blind Brook teacher then. Then there were fewer walls and more embraces. And George Trautwein was one great embracer. When we all devoted ourselves to creativity, he was a champion of new creations. He reached out to all – students and colleagues – and helped define a special time, in a rare era, that we were blessed to share. I hope you all agree that I am not romanticizing the past. George Trautwein’s years at Blind Brook were special years, not just for music and theater and acting (and we should praise my great friend Pete Tarshis here, too). They were special years for education. I am, this year, retiring after 37 years of teaching in New York. I have loved students and classes and even schools beyond Blind Brook. But nothing else in my career can match the special blessing of those vastly creative and wondrously strange, unique years when Blind Brook was being born, and George Trautwein was one of those -- along with David Schein, Roger Smith, David Press, Wilbur Johnson, and so many others -- who led the way. I came to Blind Brook young and alive and alert and ready to try anything. And at Blind Brook I found a home where everyone said that anything heartfelt and smart was actually worth trying. George – with his passion, his artfulness, his intolerance for mediocrity and his celebration of individuality – was one of the spiritual leaders of that great time. Who among us cannot love him for that? I’m so sad to know he’s gone. I bow my head. I strive to revere such memories.

Deborah Krainin

Deborah Krainin

Since these tributes began I’ve been wondering: Did I appreciate him enough? Did I remember enough? Did I understand him enough? How is it that 29 years later I can go back with so much emotion in my heart and so much sadness at this loss? What does it mean to suddenly feel a rush like this when I hadn’t carried him with me everyday? Then I remember that what I have always carried with me was not only the music, but the way music is made. It isn’t just from our voices, or our sternums (as we all got poked there), but it’s the way music is made with our spirits. That he might have awakened that part of me without my knowing. As a teacher I demand “the best” from my students. They know it and they appreciate it. I walk into every classroom full of energy, enthusiasm and joy because I’m happy to be there and I’m happy to see them. But that doesn’t mean I don’t reveal my frustrations. They know when I’m disappointed because I show it. They work to please because I work to bring out the best that is within them. As I sit and read all these moving posts it dawns on me in a way never before that I did carry this man who loved us, screamed at us, showed us, gifted us: everyday. I’m more grateful now than I was then. I have the chance to look back and to love him more than I did then. Everyone on this site reminds me that he was a conduit for all of us. Something wonderful that flows through us. Something extraordinary that sings through us. And through of all of us and these remembrances he sings back into the world and into life. And for that, I am eternally grateful. Thank you Mr. Trautwein.


Deborah Krainin

At the choir rehearsal days before my class graduation, most students had their sheet music folders scattered on the floor. For some reason Mr. Trautwein singled me out and said, “everyone pick up your folders, don’t be a filthy pig like Debby.” I was so upset I burst into tears as soon as class was over. I’d never had a problem with him before or been the recipient of his tirades. I found him in the commons sitting with a few teachers on a bench. I looked him in the eye and told him he couldn’t speak to me like that, that it was unjust and that I wanted an apology. I was seething. He said (his face turning red) “in my office, now!” We marched into the back of the LGI and we sat down. He started to smile at me, sort of making these childlike faces. I glared at him, seriously furious with how he’d spoken to me, telling him, “those smiles won’t work on me this time Mr. Trautwein.” He made light of it and said he was sorry. I said it wasn’t enough, he had humiliated me in front of the class. At the next practice he sort of whispered his apology in front of the class and looked at me. “Not loud enough,” I said. Then he cleared his throat and said it again, louder. I didn’t feel better but I felt satisfied. When I look back now I realize that he didn’t have to apologize at all, but he chose to. Whether he did it for my self-esteem or because he felt it was right, I don’t know. But looking back, I realize, it was an important gesture. Reading everyone’s posts reminds me of the joy and laughter that permeated all of the concerts, musicals, and trips taken. Not that I’d forgotten them but I’d let them slip away to a less important place. As a teacher I demand the best from my students, something that I always acknowledge my Blind Brook teachers for. Even though I teach at the university level, it’s Blind Brook and my teachers there that instilled in me a sense of possibility and of rising to and meeting the challenges I faced. Something I try to always impart to my students. When I read these wonderful honors to Mr. Trautwein and his memory I am reminded that part of what makes the best stand out from the mediocre is dedication, commitment and perseverance. He had all of that, and a lot of talent to boot. Sometimes it's in the remembering that a memory becomes not only collective, but also like a universe made whole again. I remember him as a very complicated person for me to understand, but I think that's because he was wholly alive and passionate in every moment with his students. I learned so much from him and all of you are reminding me of just how much. Clearly his flame burns brightly in these wonderful tributes. I had forgotten how much of that flame has helped light my way. I thank everyone for reminding me of that, and for making that long ago universe made whole once more.

Debbie Halpern

Debbie Halpern

For me, Blind Brook provided a bridge. Through the “young” teachers like Del, Doc, Pete, Presto (to name just a few, as there were many more) I was able to access and internalize the values, the rebellion, the experience of the ‘60’s that may have otherwise passed me by -- values that helped to influence many of my most important life choices. Through Trauty – first as a choir member, and then as an audience member - I gained a bridge back to my parents. By sharing the music of musicals with us, he made it belong to us, and through that music, we found common ground – rare in the house of teenagers.

May you rest in joy, Uncle Trauty. What a rich man you were!

PS...I think that this should be used as a tool for recruiting young people into the teaching profession and as an inspiration to those who are already in it.

David Zuckerman

David Zuckerman

Dear Mr. Trautwein,

I'm on my mundane commute into the office, reading all your posts, filling me with joy and sadness... compelling me to contribute...

Thanks, Mr. Trautwein, for making me feel like, and showing me how I could "sing," when I knew actually the only sounds I could make were those of a crow....
Thanks for providing us with such important lessons in life, which can't be found in a textbook...
Thanks for affording us the opportunity to enjoy ourselves and each other, faults and all - so many friendships were deepened in your classes...
Thanks for allowing us to give to the community and to feel proud about something we produced together (Pirates, Guys and Dolls, HMS Pinafore, etc)...
Thanks for getting Marc Salamon to hit more than one note...
Thanks for the trips to NC and to Italy and for enabling me to tell my kids (while enjoying the screeching sounds on American Idol) how I went to Rome and sang for the Pope in San Marco's Square (even though the Pope may not have been there to listen)...
Thanks for the kind, supportive words after the loss of my Dad...

Reading these posts and thinking of you reminds me of how lucky we all are to have grown-up in such a fantastic, fostering, close-knit community as Rye Brook...
A tremendous educational childhood experience offered throughout Ridge Street/Blind Brook HS...
In a sea of so many caring, demanding and inspiring teachers, after more than 25 years, you stand out as a resounding force and personality...
The manic tirades, the devilish grin, the wild orchestrating, dramatic flair, the caring side-chats...
My memory of you embodies the spirit and zest of those days...

Thinking of you and those times, reading all of these beautiful tributes (many from those I have warm memories about) feels good...
It's obvious you made a tremendously positive and lasting impact on the lives of so many...
And what makes for a richer life than that???

RIJ (Rest in Joy) Mr. Trautwein. You are truly appreciated and missed!
And thanks everyone else for sharing your thoughts...

David F. Uhry Dc

David F. Uhry Dc

Dear Dear George….

In a time where insecurities and self-discovery was on the tip of our skin, you were an angel to young hearts at BBHS and Ridge Street. Admittedly, my brief stay in NY from 6-9th grade endured many emotional scars, trials and learning experiences. Mr. Trautwein was one of a few mentors who stood out as a defender of self-respect, self-esteem and self-confidence to those adolescent pimple-faced youths just ‘trying to find our way.’ He instilled in us the basic laws of humanity, which was to respect all others in spite of our differences. He passionately asked us to challenge ourselves, which led some to an increased level of self-confidence.

He taught me “There is a fine line between love and hate,” and that jealousy may even play a part in the production of that aspect in our life… And then gave me one of his patented raised eyebrow looks and a smile that is indelible in our hearts and minds…and always will be.

Personally, he helped me believe in myself at a time when I didn’t even believe I had any value. He brought out self-confidence and through his direction and genuine passionate to help us learn life’s lessons, he helped raise my level of self-acceptance. He praised our efforts and achievements. He was the consummate cheerleader to all of us. He made us believe that there is nothing we can’t do and he was proud to have his hand in our education. To me, he was a kind, genuine and unique character full of love, passion and humor. One funny story to share: There was a time when we were working alone in the LGI and he went off on his piano but asked me to stay in key with what he was teaching at the time. I did this and I did it with authority (which at that time I was very insecure and didn’t have much self confidence). He said “David, if you continue on this path, you could sing at the metropolitan opera and I’m not blowing smoke up your ass.” Being the naïve kid at age 14, I had to go home and ask my dad what he meant by ‘blowing smoke up my ass.’ This is a true story as God is my witness, but one worth repeating. HA!

Thank You George for showing us your love and passion for humanity. Thank you for teaching us to reach for excellence in others and ourselves. Most of all, thank you for being a mentor to some of us during a critical time in our development when we needed it most; even though we may not have realized it at the time. Because of you George, I try to instill the same values of self-confidence, self-esteem and self-respect in my kids…. You will be sorely missed, but never forgotten.

Thank you for being an eternal mentor.....


Comments:

Cynthia Mesh

Thank you, David. What is so extraordinary to me about your words is the way in which they ring true for me and I think each and every one of us participating in this community of grief. How did George have so much love, generosity, passion, devotion and encouragement to give to not one special student or two, but hundreds, maybe more? He was an angel on earth, and now he is just an angel and he will be forever, indelibly in my heart.

David Solomon

David Solomon

I am in mourning but rejoicing the memories. He instiled alot of who I am today. I remember the first day at concert choir, he made me lift a piano and sing scales..... I gu...ess I did OK, then it was off to Westminster Abby, OMG, the trouble we got into but the experience was unforgetable! But what I remember most of Trauty was his love for music and his desire to make us the best we could be, while making us understand what music really does to us! He made us never forget to work together as a team as one voice. He continues to be one of the voices I still hear today. I always missed him as I had never stayed in touch but that candle had never blown out, he touched many lives.....God Bless you ... Trauty

David Press on The Power of George Trautwein

David Press

********The Power of George Trautwein ******** So - I was just chatting with a colleague about how many hours she and I have been spending reconnecting with ex-colleagues and ex-students because of this site. I figure that we've all collectively spent thousands of hours reconnecting with messages, e-mails, texting and phone calls away from this site. It's the power of George Trautwein continuing to affect us. If anyone is becoming focused on a TV or other media story - please talk about this Power of George Trautwein in reconnecting so many of us. I'm staying focused on the renaming of the BBHS auditorium and looking forward to the April 3 celebration of George's birthday. Peace.

David Press

David Press

It is difficult to write about George Trautwein after so many of you have painted the picture so clearly. I go back to Del Shortliffe’s description of Blind Brook in the early years and I feel like I’m there again – well – I am. The commons is still the commons and some of the old spirit remains but those were special times and George Trautwein was a huge part of it. There was this larger than life principal who loved to hire staff with strong and passionate beliefs in the possibilities of collaborative education. There were these spirited, energetic and young teachers who were not clock punchers but who equally were not time wasters and certainly not run of the mill teachers. A run of the mill teacher would feel out of his/her element at Blind Brook in the 1970s. With open classrooms, you experienced a piece of Reistetter’s astounding teaching, and the enthusiastic, focused, professional and humorous work of so many great teachers. Wow the social studies department’s factory production project, Metzler’s physics experiments, Cialfi’s amazing work every minute of every day, Daphne Dewey’s amazing Shakespeare analysis, Jim Spano’s energy, and the work of so many others. We were a family back then with Cora Lattanzio a major part of the dynamic family that we had. The family was created by the energy, attitudes and hiring of David Schein and supported by a lot of dedicated and involved families in the district – many of them represented beautifully in the writing in this Facebook group. The trips that were taken in those days showed the passion that Blind Brook had for the arts and music that led to the careers and life paths of so many of you who have written here. But it was the enthusiasm and love that staff brought to Blind Brook that really made it an amazing place for me to work and nobody brought more love and passion to his life or to his work than George Trautwein.

Even the great David Schein wanted to impress George and I love to share this story. George was at school early in the morning and David Schein would arrive after him. So, Dave would sit in his car listening to WQXR and when they announced that they were about to play Chopin’s nocturne op.9 no.2, as it started he would walk briskly up to his office wearing that impish smile and head into his office and immediately turn on the radio. After a minute with George Trautwein standing there next to Cora’s office you’d hear from Dave: “Hey George, isn’t that Chopin’s nocturne that they’re playing ……………….I think it’s the ninth, if I’m not mistaken.” Well, George would gush with what an educated, erudite principal we had at Blind Brook and Dave would be wearing his most mischievous smile when George would say things like that and George would read the smile as prideful and the whole scene would crack me up (not hard to do, you know).

I have one more story that is telling about George – many of you may have experienced this. I saw him in the hallway between the old main office and the boy’s bathroom once stop a boy who was having a conversation with a friend and George sounded something like this: “Would you repeat what you just said?” The boy repeats it and George says emphatically “Once more a little louder” and the boy repeats what he said once more. George then looks the kid right in the eyes and with his intense one-on-one focus tells him he has this tremendous voice with great tonal qualities and that he should join the chorus – there are a lot of boys in the chorus but we need more like you etc. etc.. Seeing how he was recruiting for his chorus amazed me but fits with everyone else’s descriptions of George as a purposeful educator, a force to be reckoned with, a passionate life force. I’ve missed him from the day he left Blind Brook. I miss him now and really miss those big beautiful hugs but I’ll remember him for the rest of my days. Thanks for everything George. You should rest in peace.

Comments:

Bil Johnson

Presto!! You crazy genius...how you capture so much of what was so wonderful.....and I think we need to remember David Schein here...who so loved and reveled in George's genius....


Del Shortliffe

Wonderful, Presto! And Wonderful Presto. Your stories are so precise and telling, and your heart is so large. And Wilbur--we talk at least once a month, and a part of every conversation includes a few minutes of gushing about those great days at young Blind Brook. Now it's in print. David, Bil, and Cora are right, too: Dave Schein should have had a FB page, too. Best principal of my whole career, without a doubt.


Suzy Lonergan Buffone

Hey Mr. Press - Here's a story I was just telling my girls a couple of weeks ago, you probably won't remember...for some reason I can't recall I brought my 3 year old nephew to BB one afternoon...I had your class after art and Shaun came along with me proudly carrying his pictures he painted..not to be outdone, you covered all the tables in the center of the room with paper and gave him a set of markers...my girls comment "wow...you went to a cool school, wish we could go there!!!"

David Briskman

David Briskman

Nice to see all the posts. Nice to see the "viral" activity on how we all were formed and changed forever at BBHS by such passionate and great teachers like George. I only hope our own children have such a chance.

From India - Brisk

David Alan Wegweiser

David Alan Wegweiser

"I'm the meanest snake in the grass!!"
...Always the showman. We know you loved us all as much as we all loved you. Rest in peace...

Dave Benerofe

Dave Benerofe

I am still sore from getting poked in the sternum all those years. If only I was smart enough back then to know just how important he would be in my life. And Matt .... thank you for your eloquent words. And now my wife knows why I dragged her to the Mikado on Broadway. Reading all these stories is fantastic.

Cynthia Mesh

I went to the opening night of Beauty and the Beast at Arlington High School tonight - my daughter Leah is the stage manager and has devoted herself to that work in numerous productions. It was all I could do to keep from tearing up  as I watched yet another group of beautiful high school kids finding their voices, giving the gift of performance, and making an impression on everyone in the audience, and especially the younger kids, not to mention themselves. We had George Trautwein. They have Michael Byrne and others. Yes, George was completely extraordinary and one-of-a-kind, and yet there are so many incredible people out there teaching our kids music, art and life every day. I am so grateful for them and have and will continue to tell them, often.  George Trautwein made an indelible mark on my life.  He was kind, brilliant, demanding, sensitive, zany, human, and full of passion for singing.  His example, his generosity, his friendship were an unbelievable gift to me and my entire family.  We will miss him dearly, yet he is always in our heart.  All our love goes out to Michael in these days and years to come.

Matt Miller Tribute to George Trautwein on MSNBC March 25, 2011

Matt Miller Tribute To George Trautwein on MSNBC

Comments after people viewed above tribute:

Stephanie Katz
Matt - that was outstanding...I have never been so proud to be an educator as I am today. If my tombstone reads, "She was a teacher," it will be clear to others that I lived a remarkable life. I have no doubt that the amazing educators at RSS and BBHS shaped the person I am today; I am once again reminded of their inspiration by this group and your words. Thanks to all of you who shared your thoughts. This is very special.

Bil Johnson
Matthew: so perfect. Thanks for such a wonderful tribute to not only George but to teachers. As one who still slogs in everyday, I genuinely appreciate it. We do go on and we always hope it makes a difference.

Joann Alperstein Abdoo
My husband and I just watched the MSNBC clip. Me for the third time. Him for the first. At the end he said..."OK. I get it now."

Craig Swerdloff

Craig Swerdloff

BBHS class of 1992

This is a wonderful memorial. I am saddened by our loss, but this page has given me great pleasure over the last 24 hours. As I read your comments, it refreshes my own memories of "Trauty".

Perhaps we were unusual, I believe so, because our senior year Trauty canceled the musical. To this day I feel some responsibility for that, having not memorized my lines, nor given the necessary commitment that he was looking for. For that disappointment, my apology is long overdue.

Trauty took us to Arizona and New Mexico in 1990 or 1991. He took us across the country to sing at ASU in their recently completed music hall, because the room had perfect acoustics. Passion.

Compared to the rest of my family, I am blessed with a great voice. That is not to say I have any talent at all. Everything is relative. In 1993 Trauty told my brother Blake, that he could continue in the Choir on the condition that he lip-sync for the rest of the year. We still laugh about it today.

Trauty, your memory lives on and you will not be forgotten.

Craig R. Griffin

Craig R Griffin

The first opera I ever went to was with George in NC. It was also " La Boheme". He gave me the wonderful gift of Singing, that has followed me all my life. Of coarse he gave me much more than that!

Craig Lawrence

Craig Lawrence

As the 1988 Harrogate International Youth Music Fesitval coincided with the Easter holiday some 23 year ago, I recall Mr. Trautwein today with love and gratitude. In honor of George, I'd like to share this BBHS Concert Choir performance of David's Lamentation at York Minster Cathedral. He was a remarkable man and how he managed to draw forth such an outstanding performance from mere high school students is still beyond me.

[recording made in York was shared through Facebook]

Cora Lattanzio

Cora Lattanzio

I was working at Ridge Street School in the Media Center (basement) when David Schein was interviewing teachers for the new high school. Many of the prospects came in wearing jeans, had long hair and beards. (We jokingly called it the House of David.) However, a gentleman, interviewing for the vocal music position, arrived wearing a navy blazer, white shirt, tie and slacks. I thought to myself, "will he fit in". Well, George Trautwein did more than fit in -- he was a gifted teacher of music, as well as a humanitarian. He was one of the many great teachers David Schein hired during those first eight years. I traveled with George and the choral groups to North Carolina and Italy. He was strict with the students, but they respected and loved him. During our many years together at Blind Brook he and I became very good friends. George and I were born on the same day, the same year (April 3, 1930). I am very sad that he is no longer with us, but I am sure he is directing and singing with the angels. Can you just see him waving his arms as he directs them? I will miss him greatly. Good-bye my friend.

Cheryl Kramer Kaye

Cheryl Kramer Kaye

I may be getting some of the details wrong, but when I was in 8th grade, Mr. Trautwein brought Nina Pelton, then a junior, I believe, over to our choir class to perform one of the songs from the show they were working on. (Hello, Dolly?) We were all mesmerized by her incredible voice and I remember hoping that, maybe someday, I'd be able to sing like that. Well I can assure you that I never came within a mile of Nina Pelton territory, but Mr. Trautwein gave me more opportunities than I ever imagined to perform. To this day l love when Christmas carols are on the radio and I can "pa rum pum pum pummmmmmmmm" along.

Comment

Laura Rebell Gross

Cheryl, I remember being in the chorus of Oklahoma and watching you perform the role of Lori and thinking that maybe someday I'd be able to sing like you! So, you were my Nina Pelton! : )

Charles Scopoletti

Charles Scopoletti

What a legacy to leave behind, so many touched by ones mans passion for greatness! I thank you Mr. Trautwein for making me believe that all is possible in life! You were not only an amazing teacher but a great friend, willing to give advice in hard times and in good. You not only helped shape me as a singer but more importantly as a person! Since graduating in 1994, I went on to make singing and playing my career. The foundation that Mr. T gave me still lives on in every performance I have!

Cecelia Beirne

Cecelia Beirne

We never fully get over high school, but the love flowing through this group, and the memories are phenomenal. I was so in awe of George - so charming and creative and such a great teacher. I admit that I envied him and felt some of the same lack of confidence that many of you have been talking about. But Steve Mesh is right - George flashed that big smile, and made you feel like the world must be revolving around you. He was a force of nature, and the best reminder of how important it is to touch people, to love them. I consider myself blessed in so many ways, including being a part of those days. The Math department was like a family - John Mills apologizing for yelling too loud (as though he could), Tommy (for the inspiration, remember that board work?), Eda, Jim Alloy, Presto (all extraordinary, supportive teachers). And you guys are so great to hear from again (I remember so many funny experiences). I have cried several times in the past few days when I read your thanking me for helping you to believe in yourself - you got it. Thank you for helping me to pursue the passion of teaching. While I have not taught since leaving BBHS in 1985, I still remind everyone that it is the hardest and most important job in the world. We may never get over high school entirely, but that's not all bad. George and Dave and Tommy will always be with us. I love you guys.

Comment:

Scott Bierko

The high school experience shown in the movies and on TV is always full of cliques and clowns. What I remember is a community that was supportive and inclusive where you always got a second and third chance to redeem yourself. I remember using up all three opportunities with most of my teachers. Thanks, Ms. Beirne!

Carrie Sachs Klein

Carrie Sachs Klein

Twenty eight years ago, Mr. Trautwein pointed at Marc, and then at me (standing on the stage in the LGI) and said "Dance or Fail." We danced together in Guys and Dolls. We have been married for twenty one years. Words to live by….

Carol Lattanzio

Carol Lattanzio

I did not attend Blind Brook High School (my class went to Valhalla) but through my mother and sister, Joyce, I was fortunate to know and love George. He and Michael were friends to all of us and we remained close throughout the years. One of my favorite memories of George was last year at my mother's 80th birthday. He and my nephew Josh (Joyce's youngest son) sat in the corner discussing music. George was explaining the importance of learning to read music and not to just memorize the cords. Josh has since joined his school's jazz band so he could do just that. George, at 80, was still teaching!

Cara Taback-Kasler

Cara Taback-Kasler

TAAABAAACH..... He would say....... Boy did he scare me, yet I loved him. He pushed me and pushed me, he made me strong. It was because of Mr. Trautwein that I majored in voice when I went to college. When I saw him a few years back and he heard that I was a social worker all he could do was shake his head , and say,"your poor mother.... all those voice lessons." The songs, the plays, the concerts.....

Mr. Trautwein.... you will be missed..... and always apart of us!



Cara Taback-Kasler

For days now...I have been reading everyone's beautiful tributes to Mr. Trautwein....my thought and feelings have been written by all of you. I just read Matt Miller's article in the Washington Post and was truly moved. I do not think I have missed one posting that has been written over the past few days. Mr. Trautwein truly is a person that I have thought about often, and have spoken about to my kid many times over the years. I have been ripping my house apart to find pictures and then realized that they are somewhere in my sisters attic.

Brooke Sweeney, Patrick's daughter

I am Patrick's daughter, Brooke (age 13). I was never Mr. Trautwein's student but my dad was and he knew my grandparents, George and Jane Sweeney, very well. We used to go to Michael's shows. I believe the show was Gypsy at Irvington Town Hall Theatre but at the end when my family was leaving, Mr. Trautwein gave me a pin that was a pair of ruby red slippers and told me this "Follow the yellow brick road and when it ends, follow your heart" and gave me one of his "looks" as dad called them. I will never forget him giving me that and telling me that. This past fall, my sister, my brother, my dad, and I were in a production of "Annie" at Curtain Call in Stamford. We are sure that if it wasn't for Trauty, we would not have been there.


Then I went downstairs to my piano and wrote a song about him named We Go On. - Brooke

Bronwen Cromwell

Bronwen Cromwell

I never had a class with him but the beauty of BBHS was the size of the school and how tight knit we all were with our friends and teachers/ mentors. He truly was a class act and left an indelible mark on all.

Break forth, O beauteous heavenly light

Break forth, O beauteous heavenly light,
and usher in the morning;
O shepherds, shrink not with affright,
but hear the angel’s warning.
This child, now weak in infancy,
our confidence and joy shall be,
the power of Satan breaking,
our peace eternal making.

Bil Johnson

Bil Johnson

Was there ever a better colleague? Was there ever a more tireless, dedicated, impassioned educator? I think Shakespeare anticipated George with these words: "He, only in honest gentle thought -- and common good to all, made one of them. His life was gentle, and the elements so mixed in him that Nature might stand up and say to all the world, This was a man!" We are all better for having known him and, while he will be sorely missed, he is clearly alive and well in our hearts and minds.


Bil Johnson

my god.........what a time, what a world Blind Brook was...........and I wish we had had a page like this for Dave, when he left.........he saw what was important about school....about what was needed to enrich, encourage, and embrace. George, of course, was the epitome of it, of course, but Dave's particular genius was believing in putting together this amazing , crazy, insane group of people who were so dedicated to educating young people. I'm still in the classroom, teaching in New York City, and I work with a wonderful group of young teachers.......but nothing will ever match what Blind Brook was in those days..........I can't even list all the fabulous people I had the incredible opportunity to work with in those years........George, of course, tops the list...but, those of you who remember and know.......and I want to just send a shout-out to David Schein, too, who put together the most amazing, crazy, vibrant, interesting, intelligent people group of teachers I've ever known or seen. And George was one of the great co-conspirators with Dave........omg, what a wonderful relationship they had!! It's hard to express, or describe, what it was like then....the energy, the excitement, the incredible BELiEF that we were creating a new world....and this outpouring of sentiment, of memories, of stories...only affirms that the vision was right..........so, remember George......and remember David Schein, too, who orchestrated this wonderful experience we all got to share....and plod on, undaunted.........it was an amazing and special time.....and, to my dying day, it will be one of the most wonderful, sweetest memories.........god bless, George, and god bless David Schein...for helping create one of the most wonderful, amazing, life-affirming experiences we all got to share.........Amen

Beth Stanton

Beth Stanton

My view of Mr. Trautwein was from the woodwind pit rather than the risers. And yet 25 years after graduating I find I can recall every word and note of so much of his repertoire mentioned here. It was the diction that made it so memorable! Looking back on that time and the outrageous dedication he and Gary Cialfi had for pushing high school students to perform like professionals, I'm sure I didn't appreciate how lucky we were.

Barry Finkelstein

Barry Finkelstein

Perhaps not the person you would most expect to be writing about Mr. trautwein but I too was touched by this wonderful man. First, I was part of that nosebleed section that was amazed by Danny Kaye. I most remember Danny walking all the way to the back of the stage and telling us that it was 1 full city block, east to west I might add. I had to trust he Wes telling the truth as we couldn't possibly see the stage past roughly 15 ft from our vantage point. Second, as Mr. Bierko can attest I am a closet thespian. I absolutely adored the productions from a Midsummers Night Dream to the Pirates of Penzance. mr. trautwein helped give a voice to so many of my talented friends and I am truly grateful. I would especially like to point out how impt he was to a classmate that we lost some years ago, Kyle Frand. Thanks to Mr. Trautwein, Kyle blossomed as both an entertainer, a person and a friend.

So thank you George Trautwein for touching me without ever knowing it.

Barry Eisenberg

George you will be missed. I remember as a 9th grader seeing the choir perform for the very first time in our new high school and say to myself, " I want to be part of that." So I joined up like so many of us here. He was unlike any teacher I had ever had before. He demanded you to be present. It was unthinkable to just sail through class. If you did, you were out. He treated everyone equally, no matter if you had innate talent or not. I don't think he was after perfection, but he was after dedication, passion, and presence. He taught me the meaning of collaboration and the importance of working together to create. And he did it with respect, professionalism, and love

There are many memories, many already recounted here. Just to add a few. I remember him talking about taking us to a new show on Broadway that he had recently seen, but was concerned that it might be too "racey" for our high school eyes and ears. We finally ended up going to see "A Chorus Line" standing room only.

Who remembers the song Jack Sprat? This was a piece he had just written for a composition class at SUNY. It was friggin hard!

The trips to North Carolina were incredible. I got to go twice and have been back to the Outer Banks for most summers of my adult life in part because of my introduction to Ocracoke Island by George Trautwein.

He had a line for people who were really pushing the limits in class. I have always remembered this but don't think I was ever at the receiving end. But it's priceless:

"You are rude, crude, and unattractive."

Those early days at Blind Brook were and are special. George was such a part of that. With these memories he lives on in spirit forever. I am in awe of the love here.

Balfour Turner 

When he lived and loved us in Goldsboro,those long and lovely days ago, we, out of his exceptional hearing, of course, called him Trautwein....it seemed enough. later on as we all grew up and away, it became George, per his request. He has returned here, to visit friends he never forgot, and receive honors...not nearly enough....and he always remembered. EVERYTHING! Being the kindest and most generous of men, knowing my own limitations, he came by to visit and stayed, not just the small polite amount of time, but the whole afternoon. I was so amazed, I took a photo, telling him no one would believe he was here if I didn't! He seemed bemused that I would think that important. It was. We kept in touch in spurts... a letter here, a call, another visit there.... he never forgot. he also never forgot my first day try out in class..and loved to tease me by sometimes referring to me as Miss Lucky Strike... due to my fondness of smoking, and my luck at staying on pitch! You, who knew this wonderful man, will know just how many memories there are that should be shared, but there is just not enough space. He filled up the space in any room, but he made all of us shine so bright. He was the pied piper, He was Trautwein. I loved him dearly.

Anthony (Tony) Palomba

Tony Palomba

Consort Choir, Oklahoma, & Uncle George. Perhaps my best experiences and most favorite personality during my years at Blind Brook. GT was an ambassador for everything that is right about teaching young adults how to reach their potential and, most importantly, how important it is to embrace personal responsibility. He is a treasure in my memory and I, like everyone else on this page, was blessed to have been taught and mentored by this good and loving man.

Anne Marx Glickman

Anne Marx Glickman

As I go through life my hope is that I can make a positive difference in even one other person’s life. I’m still working on it but Mr. Trautwein you are leaving us knowing that you have made a difference in hundreds of lives. You will be remembered and always loved.

Angela Hanson Garofalo

My sister, Lisa and I were deeply saddened to have heard the news of Mr. Trautwein! I will never forget the opportunity he offered me as the female lead in Fiddler on the Roof prior to my graduation in 1993! He always believed in my ability even when I questioned and thanks to Mr. Trautwein he offered me the confidence in social venues that I would have never had without him! We love you and miss you!

Andy Brown

Andy Brown

I was so very sad to hear of the passing of this great man. He left such an indelible mark on everyone who had the pleasure of knowing him. I am so happy to read all of these posts and the outpouring of love! No matter what years we attended BBHS it seems that GT made his presence felt. My fondest memories are of singing in the consort choir and for whatever mundane reason bursting out into laughter with my pal Anthony and GT saying "Brown, Palomba...are you on drugs?!" I can never forget our production of Oklahoma and all of the great times we had putting on that play. Those memories (mostly behind the scenes fun) will last forever. GT was a great teacher, mentor and friend and he will be missed. RIP George, you were loved very much.

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Tony Palomba
Even though he would ask regularly...he knew darn well we weren't. I think he did that on purpose!

Andrea Ferreira DiMichele

Andrea Ferreira DiMichele

The fond memories are so sweet of Uncle Trauty. He was such a dear sweet gentle men and yet he was so firm and could he YELL. I remember going to NC choir trip and he made Robin Dawson and I sleep with Peppy the Nurse because he didn't trust us!!! I drove him crazy on that trip and it was such a great experience. I longed for my boyfriend while on that trip and he knew it and he made the rest of the choir sing his name for warm ups!!! He knew how to bust them. I know if I didn't move I would of went into singing because of his belief in my voice. He was an inspiration and I adore him and am soooo heart broken. Heaven has a beautiful spirit who is with the angels singing praising to our Lord. God Bless you and Keep you George Trautwein just like we used to sing in choir for you. Love, Andrea



Andrea Ferreira DiMichele
I looked up where the origin of the name Trautwein came from as many of you probably know it is German what it also said is Trautwein means "BELOVED FRIEND!" WOW....doesn't that say it all!!!

Andrea Ferreira DiMichele
Wishing you a wonderful Birthday in Heaven. May the choirs up in Paradise open their voices and sing for the teacher who taught us the heavenly sounds of music!!!

Andrea Ferreira DiMichele Jonathan You said it all. He made us the very best we could be, even if we did not want to! You would never say NO to Uncle Trauty!!!

Amy Yelin

Amy Yelin

I did not know George Trautwein well, but I remember my mother LOVED the man. My sisters were more involved with GT's shows, and I remember watching in awe when Nili's colorful, talented friends came to the house for an after party (whoever stole those signs from the basement, we're still watiting for them back). What i remember most, however, was that GT was very kind to me when I was recruited as an eight-year old to play the part of a Craig Bierko's daughter, I believe, in Carousel. What a thrill that was....being picked up by Craig...sigh.
I had no idea that this man touched so many people's lives and it's been touching and fun to read these entries, a couple of which brought me to tears. Amazing.

Amy Salko Robertson

Amy Salko Robertson

I know most people called him Mr. Trautwein, but he was always Trauty to us - it wasn't just Trauty behind his back - my sister and I called him that to his face - he would look at us with that stern look and try to yell at us but could never hold the gaze fully, so we knew he secretly enjoyed this loving display of UTTER DISRESPECT!

Ironically, I was with Stephanne this evening and she shared this sad news with me - my heart warmed and a smile came to my face and then a giggle because the most immediate memory that came to mind was... Trauty with a puffed up chest, flaming red face, veins popping out of his head and neck and huge booming voice, yelling what he enjoyed yelling more often then not....STEEEEEEPHPHPHANNNNNE - I'm still laughing now just thinking about it - Oh Stephanne I'm so glad you're the one who shared the news with me...it brought me right back to choir.

Trauty you meant the world to me and for many of us YOU WERE OUR WORLD - you shaped us and changed our lives and in between bellows you had this very soft side and the best was when you laughed until you cried. You did EVERYTHING BIG and I hope you know how BIG you were to us all!!!

xxxxoooo A



Amy Salko Robertson:
It's amazing, but as i read all these posts what stands out so strongly is the reminder of TRUTH. Trauty's Truth. George saw things in us, sometimes in ways we appreciated and sometimes in ways we did not...but he was fearless. He told it like it was i.e. his note to Jimmy Deutsch, etc. I think one of the things that is most powerful about George is his unyielding and unabashed ability to speak the truth - whether it was painful or not. He was bold and brave and the receiver of his truth also had to be bold and brave you could fight it but in the end there it was...undeniable. I think it's in his truth that we were able to find our true selves.

BRAVO - George What a breath of fresh air you would be today in this dreadfully homogenous PC world we've created xxxxoooo A

Amy Agatston Grolnick

Amy Agatston Grolnick

What I remember most about Mr. Trautwein was his fervent belief that anyone could sing. I can picture him making one of the boys (Leigh and Steven Cohen come to mind) lean over and sing one note while he drummed on their backs until one pure note would ring out. That was all that was needed to make a believer out of that boy, who now knew, without a doubt, that he was a singer. He was the "meanest snake" in the woods? grass?...not sure I remember the rest, but he was a force, one that will live within so many of us forever.

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Cynthia Mesh The fact that George was able to coax, cajole, encourage, beg and simply wait for my brother Leigh to join choir was really incredible. And to get both Leigh and Steven Cohen out there... what a spirit he had. The meanest snake... OMG - so many phrases I've forgotten that are now flooding back. Thanks, Amy, for sharing that one!

Amy Agatston Grolnick He was so proud of Leigh; what an incredible bond they had.

Jeff Salamon ‎"Who's the meanest snake in the grass"!!! I had forgotten all about that, Amy. Thanks for reminding me. Amazing how this sad day has turned into a joyous celebration. I feel weepy one moment, then giddy the next.

Alex Riseman

Alex Riseman

What I remember most about my days in HS Choir is how Mr. Trautwein (I still think of him in that way) treated the talented and non-talented the same, and that anyone if they put in the requisite effort, could be in his class, and in the High School musicals.....As one of less talented (am being kind to myself) I always appreciated how he would still challenge me to sing my best. ! I will always have fond memories of screaming "Hey Ho" and other tricks to get into pitch. As I am writing this my wife asked did he ever ask you to not sing loud? And I must say, he never did!!! I can only hope that my children are fortunate enough to have teachers like George Trautwein that have the passion for their craft, and demand the best of them.

Allison Marx

Allison Marx
"I voted for Nixon" Does anyone else remember that? Mid-song- though I don't remember why he was telling us that.

We were and are a lucky bunch. We had spirited, passionate, knowledgeable teachers. We went to a school where there was no stigma about being in choir or caring about learning.

Thanks for voice lessons on your free periods and 7 am rehearsals and shows in the LGI with no wings.

May we all live up to those standards. I'm a teacher now and I channel Trautwein and all the rest everyday- ok not ALL the rest.

Leslie Perlman Reiff   Oh yes I remember that well!! Mr. Trautwein was actually at my house and we had a political discussion right before rehearsal. I guess he took it to heart...but that was one of the best things about him...he was ALL heart, and I know he cared about each and every one of us.

Aimee Austin

Aimee Austin

Cantante Domino, Canticum novum, Cantante Domino onimus terra.

sing to the Lord a new song, sing to the Lord all the earth.

When I think of Mr. Trautwein I reflect on the messages he taught us; one being that we all have a "voice". That can mean something different to all his students, but it comes down to this, no matter how weak, no matter how strong we all count and need not waist such a valuable gift, the gift of " voice"..... let it be heard.

The Lord bless you and keep you, the Lord lift His countenance upon you, and give you peace, and give you peace. The Lord make His face to shine upon you, and be gracious unto you, be gracious. the Lord be gracious unto you, AMEN.

Much Peace Mr. Trautwein "For Death begins with life's first breath and life begins at touch of Death".

Aimee

Adam Kuropatwa

Adam Kuropatwa
Warmed up some piano and voice students today with a round of "Where Shall I Hit Him Today" in tribute. My brother Rob and I are forever grateful.

Adam Chalk

Adam Chalk

There are very few people one will encounter in their life that not only looks to inspire, but to pull the potential out of you. Sure George was tough, but he knew what he was doing and always had the good goals in mind. Improve people individually and collectively as a group. I personally cant stand most musical theater anymore, but when I think of the experience I received, education, exploration, travel and musical development, his basic staples of excellence will always remain within me. There are people who truly care and deeply believe in what they do, and George was one of them...Sad, yet to be celebrated.